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Monday, May 31, 2004 - Chung Lao     

New Interview & More New Pictures...

A.  Akua Pipim has been interviewed for The Tonight Show.  Be sure to check it out.

BEvent Rotation:  We've added a rotating piece in the upper right hand corner of the site to cover bdays/events, etc.  As for the birthdays themselves, we are still missing plenty of pics, so if you would like to send in your picture, send it to the following: indaphat@indaphatfarm.com, and put ATTENTION IPF in the subject header so it's not deleted as junk mail.

CNEW PICTURES:  91 new pics.  Check them out.

ENTER THIS JOINT:  As you all know, the "ENTER THIS JOINT" pics have been gracing the index page of IPF for several years now.  Well, I finally decided to archive all of the ones that I still have.  For future reference, you can find them in the Extras section, under Pictures.

Third Day & Toby Mac Concert 2004:   I've also got 16 pics for you courtesy of Blesson S of the Concert mentioned beforehand.  Be sure to have a look, there are some great colors.

Blesson also has 2 media clips available for download:

Clip 1

Clip 2

D Tourney 2004:  I am still waiting on the $200 fee from the following churches:

Brooklyn, Chicago,,Houston, and Philly.

E Congratulations:  Congrats go out to Abhilash & Erica on the birth of their new son, 

Elijiah T. Abraham

F.  The Greatest Generation:  Finally, with today being Memorial Day, I want to take this time to remember the WW2 generation that affected the world like no generation of the past century.

Without sounding trite, they were young men and women, who took it upon themselves to fight the purest form of evil, oppression.  If the allies had not won WW2, we wouldn't be sitting here today, it's that simple.  It's important that we never forget them, they truly are, "The Greatest Generation."




 

Friday, May 28, 2004 - Jonathan     

Around the Way......

So I hope everyone has had a good two weeks since we last spoke. I have been going crazy preparing for the future. First of all I am getting ready to transfer to a college in Florida, and that has presented a lot of obstacles. Second, I have been trying to find a way to get some of the guys from Chicago to go to the tournament in July. At first I had decided that it was going to be too much of a hassle to get a group to Maryland, what with having to look for transportation and all. 

But after talking with Chris and learning that Houston is coming up, I am trying my hardest to make sure we do not miss it. This is probably the one time we will get all the guys together, and I do not want to miss that. Well that and the fact that we are going to take first place this year even with out Josh. 

But enough about me and Chi-Town.  

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-I know that the one year anniversary of Blessan's death was in March, but I still want to take a moment to pay tribute to a friend. Blessan was a one of a kind person. Having had a chance to spend a few weeks in Houston during the summer of 2000, I was able to get to know Blessan. He and his brother Benson went out of their way to show me around, and make sure I had a good time while I was down there. Even after I left Blessan would call me every now and then to see how I was doing, and to make sure my family was ok, he was a true friend. He made time to come up to Chicago for a few days to attend my brothers wedding reception. 

I will always remember him for his genuine kindness

The reason I bring this up is because The Blessan Samuel Classic is fast approaching. It is my pleasure to be playing in a tournament that is named in honor of a friend.

- This years convention in Virginia is going to be a bit weird. Having grown up going to Ashland every year in July, I think I am going to need a little adjustment period. Dare I say I am going to miss Ashland. I mean where are we going to grab a bite to eat after the services. We are going to have to start off fresh and scout the place out. And the place better have some basketball courts near by, that we can sneak off to and play in between services. Wait did I just say that out loud?

 - Ok let me see the hands of everyone who put down $7-$10 to see the opening of Shrek 2 last weekend. Can you believe it took in over $100 million in just three days? That is the second largest amount any movie has ever made in an opening weekend.

Which took in the most you ask? Spider-Man.

 - Two weeks ago I predicted the L.A. Lakers would lose to the San Antonio Spurs in game 5 of that series, and  of course I was WRONG! After what was one of the most amazing endings to a basketball game that I have ever seen, the Lakers finished off the Spurs in game six.

And as sad as it is for me to say this, I must, the Lakers will win the NBA Championship.

- Did any one get a chance to hear the comments comedian Bill Cosby made to an audience he was addressing during a celebration of the 50 year anniversary of the courts decision to desegregate schools. Mr. Cosby (who by the way has a Doctorate in education, so he is more than a little qualified to speak about education) stunned his audience when he said that young African Americans should be ashamed of the way that they behave and talk. He blasted them for their choice of violent music (hip-hop) and their use of the  English language. He said that you can not become a doctor speaking the way that the youth speak these days. He blasted the parents for not raising their youth properly. He went as far as to ask where the shame has gone for a young woman to be pregnant before marriage? 

And were is the shame of a young men trying to escape his responsibilities  as  fathers? I applaud Mr. Cosby for taking a stance and saying what he felt. Problem is he is receiving tons of heat and disapproval from the African American community, namely the NAACP. Many feel he generalized all black people. Bill Cosby spoke his mind, and expressed his concerns. At least he cares about the youth. He is a leading activist in promoting education. All those adults wanting to bash him should worry about raising their kids right.

- Average price of a gallon of gasoline in Chicago “$2.20”

I’m out, have a good weekend.  Bigdome85@yahoo.com




Inspirations: Llenis Melendez

   Posted on Thursday, May 27, 2004                                                         by Llenis M



Greetings to you ladies and gentlemen from IPF.  May grace and peace surround you’re hearts in the name of Jesus.  It is always a pleasure to share with you the things that God lays in my heart for you and others who are living the same trials and situations I happen to come across

This time I will talk about a familiar topic that we all know as the famous “Wilderness time”.  Amazingly enough, all of us come to this point in our walk with the Lord, sooner or later.  For some, it is a time that the Holy Spirit leads us into this stage so that we can listen clearly without interruptions the voice of God.  Other reasons include, God wanting to check the motives in your heart, another to test your obedience, and finally a time in which you are refined by our heavenly Father. 

 Spiritually speaking the “Wilderness” is a time of loneliness, and distance from God.  A time best described as a desert which nothing can satisfy your hunger and desire for God.  Seems as the more you try to serve him or seek him the harder it is to find him.  

I can recall many times in which the Lord has led me into the “Wilderness” to polish me up, since I begun to collect rust on my vessel.  In this time I can say I have felt he has forgotten about me and my mind is cluttered with all these negative thoughts.  Temptation here is 100x stronger in your life!  I want to show you some of the reasons for God leading people into the “Wilderness”.

2 Chronicles 32:31, “However, regarding the ambassadors of the princes of Babylon, whom they sent to him to inquire about the wonder that was done in the land, God withdrew from him, in order to test him, that He might know all that was in his heart. "

In this passage we find King Hezekiah ruling over Israel and serving God.  But here in this verse we find that God departed from him to test his heart, and many times the same occurs to us today.  When all seems great in life and all the fulfillment of life is around you, all of a sudden you slowly realize that the presence of God is not near to you as before.  The purpose of God in hiding or seeming like he has departed from your heart is to test your integrity for the Lord.

 Deuteronomy 8:2, “And thou shalt remember that the Lord your God led you all the way…to humble you and test you, to know what was in your heart, whether you would keep his commandments or not.  

This verse demonstrates that in the Wilderness we are humbled and tested to see if we are found obedient. Are you going to forget about him, or are you going to remain close to him at all times?  Are you willing to obey him even when it seems senseless? Are you willing to trust him that he knows best, even more than your thoughts?  Or are you only going to seek him when you failed or feel it is convenient?

I am not trying to discourage you, much less sound negative, but this is all true, at least for me.  I have learned that I am a weakling in the “Wilderness”, but I am comforted to know that Jesus said, 2 Corinthinans 12:9 …And He said to me, my grace is sufficient for me and my strength is made perfect in weakness!   

I also am reminded that he that began a good work in me shall finish it!  I can assure you that when you reach the weakest point with the Lord he will give you his grace and strength to restore you again.  Although you feel you cannot overcome, nor continue, guess what it is not your power, nor your strength, but his.  Why??? So that he will receive the glory and you will love and experience his grace.   I have more to share, but it would be too long, but I pray that this can be uplifting in your time of “Wilderness”.         


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Wednesday, May 26, 2004 - Susan     

Looking Back......

I am not really sure where to begin.  Looking back, the past four years are a blur.  More like an indistinguishable dream.  I cannot really separate the past four years because they seem to have amalgamated into one great big experience.  One in which passed by so very fast.  As a graduating senior, I can look back fondly and remember a lot of not waking up on time, missing the Park and Ride, and walking into class late.  Sometimes very late.  Anyway, I can also remember a time when the campus bookstore was once filled with Crayola yellow booths, and what was once a very large field, now the Comcast Center.  I’ve seen the men’s basketball team win their very first NCAA Championship.  Many great happenings and transformations have taken place at the University of Maryland during my tenure.  However, as a commuter student, I somehow feel hoodwinked…but not.

While many college students’ experiences consist of dorm life, hazing, bar hopping and frat parties, mine consisted of mainly going to lectures and a few sporting events, hanging out with friends and being home by nine.  I cannot say I’ve had the typical college experience.  I haven’t.  I’ve lived at home all four years.  I think that the life of a commuter is more detached from the university community than the lives of those who live on campus.  But I guess we are the ones who decide whether or not we want our college experience to be worth our while.

I was never one to sit down and study for long periods of time.  My mind would easily get distracted and I would go off and do my own thing.  My college experience consisted of doing things I’ve always been interested in.  Going places I’ve never been.  Getting my hands on things I’ve always wanted to do.  Growing up I never really got to hone my hobbies or interests.  My years in college gave me that.  I guess you could call it independence—something every person needs.  A time to become an individual.

College is definitely a time for a person to examine their life and really set their values, plans, and individuality into place.  In the end, as I think about it now…by the grace of God, I have completed four years knowing that I have learned so much about myself and who I am supposed to be.  Something my parents could never have taught me.  It was about getting my priorities straight.  College was not just about getting a degree, but it was about getting a vision for what my purpose is.  I find that more important that any degree.

Anyhow, now I’m off into the real world.  Interviews...job placements…working my tail off for that Victorian house by the bay…HERE I COME!!!

“Everyone is trying to accomplish something big, not realizing that life is made up of little things”   --Frank A. Clark

Interesting Word of the Day:  gewgaw  [G(Y)OO-gaw]  (noun):  a showy trifle; a trinket; a bauble.

The origin of gewgaw is uncertain.

"At least, you're tempted until you discover that the price of this gewgaw is $175."

--Walter Shapiro, "Earn exciting prizes from the Repubicans!" USA Today, March 27, 2002   




 

Monday, May 24, 2004 - Chung Lao     

JUNE 1st & New Pictures & Still More to Come...

A.  Tourney 2004:  June 1st.  I'm going to say it again, I need the team deposits sent in THIS WEEK, meaning you need to mail them out by this WEDNESDAY, at the latest.  It takes a few days for the mail to arrive, and a few to cash the checks.

By next week, it'll be too late.

B Jebby & Soy:  Check out 18 pics from the Engagement / Wedding.  

Shout out to Soy for writing up the captions.

C Justin Thomas has submitted a picture from his new digs in sunny San Diego.  

Yep, So long man...

*Send all picture submissions to:  indaphat@indaphatfarm.com.

More to Come...




Fairy Tales

   Posted on Saturday, May 22, 2004                                                    by Christopher M


I was around six or seven when I first heard Hans Christian Anderson's The Princess and the Pea.  At the time, I was just too young to realize how ridiculous a way that is to find a spouse.  I was, however, quite amused by the idea of the pea under the mattresses and decided to see if it worked.  (I think I was also hoping to discover that I was actually royalty.)  I dragged four mattresses to the living room - I have no idea how I managed that - piled them one a top the other, and lay down after placing a fork beneath them.  Needless to say, I did not feel anything.

As I think on that incident, I'm amazed at how easily I accepted what I heard.  As a child, I would never have thought to ask why there were seven dwarves instead of six.  Or why Aladdin was only allowed three wishes.  Or why Cinderella had to be back by the stroke of midnight.  That is just the way things were.  I accepted them and trusted that in the end, all would live happily ever after.    

Today, if I were to hear such a tale I wouldn't even pause to wonder if there could be any truth behind it.  Growing up has a way of curing us of the gullibility of childhood.  Unfortunately, we seem to lose the ability to place simple trust in others as well.  

Of late, I’ve realized how terrible a loss that really is.  The faith of a child that is something I no longer have.  And without it, questioning - and even refusing - the Father's leading has become all too easy.    

Fortunately for me, faith is something that can be learned at any age.  And thankfully, I am learning.  Learning that God does indeed have a plan for my life.  Learning that He will keep His word.  Learning that although things may not turn out as I want them to, "happily ever after" is not just the stuff of fairy tales.  It’s found in Him.    

Here’s a link to The Princess and the Pea for all those who've never heard the story before.


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Friday, May 21, 2004 - Binu

Kids Say the Darndest Things

Below is a compilation of actual student bloopers collected by teachers from 8th through 12th grades.

1) The Bible is full of interesting caricatures. In the first book of the Bible, Guinessis, Adam and Eve were created from an apple tree. One of their children, Cain, asked, "Am I my brother's son?"

2) Moses led the Hebrew slaves to the Red Sea, where they made unleavened bread which is bread made without any ingredients. Moses went up on Mount Cyanide to get the ten commandments. He died before he ever reached Canada.

3) Solomom had three hundred wives and seven hundred porcupines.

4) The Greeks were a highly sculptured people, and without them we wouldn't have history. The Greeks also had myths. A myth is a female moth.

5) Actually, Homer was not written by Homer but by another man of that name.

6) Socrates was a famous Greek teacher who went around giving people advice. They killed him. Socrates died from an overdose of wedlock. After his death, his career suffered a dramatic decline.

7) In the Olympic games, Greeks ran races, jumped, hurled the biscuits, and threw the java.

8) Eventually, the Romans conquered the Greeks. History calls people Romans because they never stayed in one place for very long.

9) Julius Caesar extinguished himself on the battlefields of Gaul. The Ides of March murdered him because they thought he was going to be made king. Dying, he gasped out: "Tee hee, Brutus."

10) Nero was a cruel tyranny who would torture his subjects by playing the fiddle to them.

11) Joan of Arc was burnt to a steak and was cannonized by Bernard Shaw.

12) Finally Magna Carta provided that no man should be hanged twice for the same offense.

13) In mid-evil times most people were alliterate. The greatest writer of the futile ages was Chaucer, who wrote many poems and verses and also wrote literature.

14) It was an age of great inventions and discoveries. Gutenberg invented removable type and the Bible. Another important invention was the circulation of blood. Sir Walter Raleigh is a historical figure because he invented cigarettes and started smoking. And Sir Francis Drake circumcised the world with a 100 foot clipper.

15) The greatest writer of the Renaissance was William Shakespeare. He was born in the year 1564, supposedly on his birthday. He never made much money and is famous only because of his plays. He wrote tragedies, comedies, and hysterectomies, all in Islamic pentameter.




 

Thursday, May 20, 2004 - Benj

Gangsta Station Wagon, Ibrahim & the Great Satan         

2005 Dodge Magnum 

The all new Dodge Magnum Whachoo think?  Personally, I like it.  I have yet to see one driving on the road, but the pictures look good.  Now this doesn't mean that I'd go buy one or anything.  But it looks pretty distinct and pretty hip for a station wagon!    

IraqtheModel is where the below comes from.  The story shines a light on the tangible benefits that the Coalition has bought to Iraq, along with revealing some of the angst about the "occupation".  Which has been better for Iraq, SADDAM or the USA?   

"My young cousin is a religious Sunni who goes to the mosque and listens to the cleric there every Friday and believes whatever he says, as he’s still young. My uncle always teased his son about this but never prohibited him from doing that. We were talking about different stuff; the kids’ needs, clerics, Americans and the increase in the average income of most Iraqis.  

My uncle had some unusual sense of humor that didn’t fit quite well in his somewhat religious family. He winked at me and turned to his son and asked him "What do you think of the Americans?" His son answered, "They are occupiers".  "So you think we should fight them?" his father asked.  Ibrahim said "No, but I don’t like them". 

My uncle said, pretending to change the subject
"Do you like your new computer that no one shares with you?" "Yes of course dad". "Ok, are you satisfied with the satellite dish receiver we have or do you need a better one?"  "This one is fine but I heard there’s a better one that gets more channels"
"ok I’ll get you that next week". Then he said, "Is there anything else you’d like to have son?"  "No dad I have all that I need".

"Ok but how about a car?"  Ibrahim was astounded and said "Really? a..a CAR.. for me!?".  "Of course for you! I'm too old to drive now and my eyes are not that well and you are the older son. So whom else would it be for!?"  "Oh, dad that will be great! When will that happen?"  "Just finish you’re exams and you’ll have it".
"I will dad".

"Are you happy now son?"  "Yes dad, sure I am!"  "Then why do you hate the Americans you son of a b***h!? I couldn’t get you a bicycle a year ago, I could hardly feed you and your brothers and sisters. You didn't know what an apple or a banana tasted like, I couldn’t buy you a damned Pepsi bottle except in occasions, and now you can have all that you wish, and a car of your own! Who do you think made that possible!?"  My cousin's face turned red and didn’t answer as we laughed and I said "What do you think Ibrahim?"

He said, "Well it’s true but it’s our money. They are not giving us a charity" and I said "Of course it’s our money, so let’s forget the Billions of dollars they are giving to rebuild Iraq and the efforts they are making to cut down our debts and lets talk about our money. Why didn’t your father, I, my brothers and all the Iraqis have anything worth mentioning before the Americans came?" He said, "Because Saddam used it to buy weapons and build palaces". 

"There you have it Ibrahim, but Americans are not touching our money. Can you tell me who’s better; the ‘occupiers’ who are helping us or the ‘patriot’ who did all that you know to us?" He said in a faint voice "They are better than Saddam but still they are not Muslims". "So do you want them to be Muslims?" "I wish they were." "Will you fight them to that?" he said, "No, of course not. I don’t like fighting." We didn’t want to pressure and embarrass him further and didn’t go further, as he’s still young but he’s smart and good-natured and will get it soon."




 

Tuesday, May 18, 2004 - Brenda     

Nick Berg, Back to Kindergarten

It has been a few days already since the grisly death of Nick Berg, yet the horror of his murder is still impacting people. At least it is impacting me. Done in the name of revenge, this far exceeded, in my opinion, the atrocities that took place in Abu Ghraib. As many have pointed out, those in there are not just petty thieves -they are terrorists and first class murderers. I do not mean to imply in any way that it justifies what was done to them; however, Nick Berg was a civilian, and if for that reason alone, his death outweighed what was done in the prisons, as disgusting as that was.

As if that were not enough, everyone is so angry at what the American guards did, and I reiterate, I strongly believe that was wrong and should be punished, yet the outrage over what happened to Nick Berg was confined mainly to the family and the U.S. government. As a matter of fact, it was only after a period of silence that some of the Arab governments finally declared it wrong  because the perpetrators  "commit acts that violate the teachings of Islam, a noble religion that deplores such acts."
I know that everyone is outraged over what happened at
Abu Ghraib because the U.S. is supposed to be the good person, but still, there was not enough outrage over his death.

I decided to compensate for the lack of outrage, and had a little tirade at home telling my dad how much I wanted to kill the people who killed Nick Berg and avenge his death, and my father  told me a few  profound words. And I quote, "Brenda, be quiet." I very wisely replied, "okay." Truth of the matter is, as Liza pointed out to me, nothing I do can possibly restore him back to life. All we can do is pray for his family and for our leaders so that they may know how to handle this situation and the whole situation in Iraq.

With all the horror in the world, one must hold on to the small things that bring happiness or even put a smile on one's face, and I had quite a few moments like that these past days. Since the spring semester has come to an end, I have been able to go back to doing something I love to do -substitute teach. Among the most recent  memorable experiences include a hike on which I went with a bunch of 6th graders, where we saw a bunch of alligators and learned that the armadillo actually has the leprosy gene (so don't eat them unless you're going to cook them well), and the kindergarten class for whom I subbed that nearly drove me insane and helped me remember why I decided that if I was going to teach, it would be junior high and above.

They drove me nuts but I loved them. They were so cute, trying to impress me with their mathematical knowledge. Teacher, teacher, they would say, I know what 100+100 is, I know what 10+5 is. And then they were even more impressed when they asked me what 1,000 +400 was and I answered 1,400. Their eyes grew big as they asked me where I had received such deep knowledge. I explained that I had passed kindergarten already and that's why I knew. They accepted my explanation unquestioningly, commenting one to another that I was a big girl and therefore knew more. Oh, to go back to kindergarten where our main concern was where we would set our mat for nap time ;) Nah, I like it much better now!

Okay everyone, take care. Until next time.




 

Monday, May 17, 2004 - Chung Lao     

June 1st FAST APPROACHING, More Soon....

A.  Tourney Fee:  June 1st is coming up on us fast, and I haven't received fees from anyone yet.

JUNE 1st

We don't have a tourney if these fees don't come in by then.  Keep in mind, that someone who has a job, can spot up the 200, and everyone can pay that person back, b/c i know firsthand it can take several weeks to collect the fees from every individual player. 

B.  The site will be updated this Saturday.  We are slowly moving toward a 6 day per week update schedule.  Keep it locked in for that.

C.  I've been really busy as of late, new pics coming next Monday.




 

Friday, May 14, 2004 - Jonathan     

The Way I See It

Wow, it has been a while since I last had a chance to write for IPF. If you don't know me by now, my name is Jonathan Flores, I'm 19, and I'm from Chicago.  A lot of you might know me from my NFL RUNDOWN column, that I wrote weekly during the NFL season. As of today I am going to be writing a column every other Friday (so if you never really check this site out just be sure to check out my column every other Friday, just kidding). This is an opportunity for me to share my opinions on just about everything that is going on in the world.  Well ok, maybe not the entire world, but I am going to get into to any topic that is big at the time, it could be about sports, politics, social events, you name it. Well here goes.

- Lets start off with something light. Since I am writing this Thursday night, before game five of the Lakers vs. Spurs playoff series is played, I cannot be 100% sure who has won the game but I am going to go out on a limb and say that the Spurs now have a 3-2 series lead. I cannot stand the Lakers, oh and Kobe have a nice time in jail.

- I cannot speak for the rest of the country, but here in Chicago the price for a gallon of gas is now over $2.00 and rising. Now excuse me for saying this but didn't the USA just invade Iraq, a country rich in oil, but yet the price for a gallon of crude oil is at an all time high. Huh? Now I am one who believes we went into Iraq for good reasons, (you know to displace an evil dictator and all) but shouldn't we, as a country, be allowed to benefit from Iraq's oil. I mean it is not like any other country has promised the people of Iraq well over $60 billion dollars in financial aid to help them rebuild their country. I mean heaven help President Bush if he tries to strike a good deal on oil with Iraq's new government, he would have every liberal, anti-war person screaming "See I told you, he only went in there for their oil."

- I was horrified to see some of the footage on the news of that American civilian being beheaded in Iraq by radical Muslims. God have mercy on his family and bring them peace, as well as to all the families who have lost loved ones over in Iraq. And I pray God brings judgment on all those who are involved in the killing of American soldiers and civilians.

- Is any one out there as excited as I am to see the movie Troy when it is released today? I am hoping it is as good as advertised, not since Gladiator has a movie of this kind been out. The war scenes in this movie should be classic.

- And finally, I leave you with a DVD rental recommendation, if you have not seen, The Last Samurai, go out and rent it tonight. It was just released this week. It has some pretty intense battle scenes.

Hope you all have a good weekend, I'm out.  Bigdome85@yahoo.com




 

Thursday, May 13, 2004 - Benj

IPF-mobile, Bush's Humanity, 24       

Above is my entry for the IPF-mobile.  Even better than an H2.  Can you imagine Chris & Binu riding around town in this beast?  :-)

Here's a very relevant quote from Oklahoma Senator James Inhofe: "I'm probably not the only one up at this table that is more outraged by the outrage than we are by the treatment. These prisoners, you know they're not there for traffic violations. If they're in cellblock 1-A or 1-B, these prisoners, they're murderers, they're terrorists, they're insurgents. Many of them probably have American blood on their hands and here we're so concerned about the treatment of those individuals."  

If Senator Inhofe's remarks are in fact correct, then we may need a serious shift in our collective outrage regarding the so-called "abuse".  These terrorists and insurgents are all connected to each other, directly or indirectly.  Extracting information from one lunatic, by whatever means necessary, may somehow prevent the killing of more innocents in the future.     

The fury over the Iraqi prisoner abuse continues, but it has been overshadowed by the absolutely horrific slaying of Nick Berg, an innocent US civilian.  This should clearly demonstrate the difference between ATROCITY and ABUSE.  Berg's slaying was an atrocity; the Iraqi detainees suffered abuse.  Hopefully idiots like Ted Kennedy will now shut their mouths, and more sane people in the party will have increased influence (i.e. Joe Lieberman who gave a great statement at last week's Rumsfeld grilling).  

Next subject:  Here's a great photo that reveals the very human side of Bush, which he seems to have no trouble demonstrating.  What a genuine contrast to the aloof, lordly John Kerry.  If this election were only focused on the likability factor, Bush would swat Kerry outta the ballpark.    

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During his visit to the Golden Lamb Inn in Lebanon (near Cincinnati, Ohio), President Bush stops to hug Ashley Faulkner, who lost her mom in the Sept. 11 attacks.

And to close out today's update, a shameless plug and an old picture from the best TV show ever.  And shame on you if you are not watching it!  Just a couple more episodes left in the ongoing third season.   www.fox.com/24

 




Inspirations: Greg Smith

   Posted on Wednesday, May 12, 2004                                                        by Greg S


A Testimony

I am at a big turning point in my life. I am at this point by the grace of God alone.

May 1999 --  Got a 0.0 GPA 2nd semester freshman year…parents pulled me out of UMBC and I went deeper into my life of sin and selfishness 

May 2001 --  Just over one year of being a Christian - Got a 4.0 in school and got into the  University of Maryland

May 11, 2004 --  (the day this was written) -- I turned in my final, final for the final `year of my college career.

May 12, 2004 --  I am going to the Pastor of my church to talk about the details of my full-time missionary position that starts in August.

I cannot and will not take credit for what I have…but I will certainly accept what He gives and I will certainly give back whatever He asks!  Praise God who is completely willing and absolutely able!

Thy Will Be Done

This has been on my heart recently…................... 

God has a Plan A for our lives…a specific purpose and a clear-cut path.

Jeremiah 29:11 says,  "For I know the plans I have for you," declares the LORD, "plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future. "

The problem …we too often presume that we know what those plans for us are.  We often justify or rationalize things in our lives because they are "good" or "not sin".  We often assume that if good comes out of a decision that it must be from God. We often make decisions based on our strength and not God's strength.  It is real easy to step out into something new if we are confident that our strength will keep us from falling.

Presumptions are a very dangerous thing in our walk with God.  Presumptions are a poor substitute of the pure and holy plan God has for us.  Jesus was not a man who made presumptions.  He always looked to the Father for his perfect will…for plan A. 

Jesus walked this earth a very different way.  He walked this earth looking to the Father first in all things, even when the way didn't seem right.  When Lazarus was ill, what did Jesus do? He stayed where he was for two more days and then went to raise him from the dead.  In our eyes that seems crazy,  but we need to walk out our lives looking to the Father to find out what He wants before we jump in.

If we base 50% of a decision on what God wants and the other 50% on our strengths, God only gets 50% of the Glory (even if those strengths are God-given!).  

Here is my challenge…rebuke Plan B in the Name of Jesus!  Base your decisions 100% on His plan and His strength and He will get 100% of the Glory.

"Trust in the LORD with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; 6  in all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight." Proverbs 3:5

Take care ya'll ~ Greg


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Tuesday, May 11, 2004 - Chung Lao     

TOURNEY 2004: UPDATED INFO: PLEASE READ!

A.  Before I get into my tourney update, I want to say we are all glad to know that Jessy J's parents are all right.  Miracles do happen.

B.  Tourney 2004:  All right, here's the deal.  The 2004 Blessan Samuel Classic Date, Location, and overall fee have changed.  Before I get into the specifics, I'm sure the foremost question on your mind is: "Why the switch from Philly?"  Well, simply put, the gym in Philly couldn't handle the 100+ people expected for this event.  That is the main reason.

C.  New Date:  Now, the date of June 5th was simply not available in a location that fit our needs.  So it has been changed to:

 July 24, 2004

This date is a couple weeks after convention, AND it avoids any fasting & prayer/communion problems that June 5th would have had, thereby depleting the ranks of atleast 2 confirmed teams, and probably more.

I now want to take this time to reassure those of you out there who are thinking, "A Date Change??  Will there be more Date Changes???"  The definite answer is NO.  This date is set, and to prove it, I dropped off the deposit for this place, yesterday afternoon.  

Make plans to take off from work and do what you have to do, b/c July 24th is the date.

D New Fee:  The fee is now confirmed at:

$200 per team

In order to cover the cost of the gym rental, refs, trophy, and liquids, this price is the only way all these needs will be met.  The previous $100 fee was tentative at best, and it would have risen come tournament time.

E New Location:  The location of the tourney will be in:

 Gaithersburg, MD

at the Bohrer activity center.  Many of you may know this place as the facility where the Indo-Pak Tourney was held in, back in April 2004.  It is also right across from Gaithersburg High School.

I went to visit the center on Saturday:

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This facility is a fairly new one, and the gym itself is in great condition.  It is a big, big improvement over the one in Brooklyn, back in 2002. 

F.  Travel Time:  In terms of travel time, we realize that this is a drive for all teams involved, which is why we will push forward the starting time of the tourney to something more manageable than something in the very early am.

Please keep in mind that Houston, the team that is spending the most $$$ out of any team, is still coming out.  So, let's make the sacrifice, and do this.

G In Closing:  There is one all important date that you need to keep in mind:

FEES DUE: BEFORE June 1st

There are no if, ands, or buts about this.  If we don't deliver the total fee by June 1st, there will be no gym, and no tourney, its as simple as that.  So what this means is, you need to get me the funds

So PLEASE collect these funds and mail me a check.  

E-mail me for my mailing address: chunglao@hotmail.com 

The 2004 Blessan Samuel Classic is now completely official.

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H In Other IPF News:  Jonathan Flores will be returning to the update lineup as a webmaster, starting this Friday, where he will rotate with Binu.  Be sure to check it out.




 

Monday, May 10, 2004 - Susan     

A Proposal I Never Thought I'd Consider

A.  I found an interesting article for you all,  that I think is worth a read:

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By Sabaa Saleem
The Washington Post

In spite of myself, I think I may agree to an arranged marriage.

Beginning next month, my parents will contact Muslim family friends around the world with a list of criteria for a husband: a twentysomething, classically handsome, Urdu-speaking Muslim man who is 6 feet tall, with an MD and MBA, as well as a PhD in something respectable like molecular toxicology. He must have a good sense of family and a financial portfolio fat enough to take care of the next 15 generations. My parents will screen the candidates, and after I graduate from college next spring, they will introduce me to the few they deem best. Ultimately, the lucky man will have to pass my own stringent test: Does he own every Radiohead album and listen to them regularly?

Like so many other young South Asians in America, I am the product of two cultures whose conflicting values pull at me with equal urgency. Never have I felt as torn between the two as I do about the question of marriage. I have been a Californian for all but the first year of my life, when my family lived in Britain, where I was born. I grew up in a small town in the Mojave Desert where conservative Republicans were as common as cacti. Inexplicably, I grew up liberal and a feminist.

My mother and father were born and raised in Pakistan, where religion is entrenched in the culture and the culture is explicitly unyielding. Though they left family and comfort decades ago for opportunity in the West, they brought strong religious faith and cultural expectations with them -- and tried to instill sobriety and respect in my two older brothers and me. They have more or less succeeded, but they have also endured nearly 30 years of our stubborn refusal to conform. They have grudgingly accepted that, while respectful, their children are also independent, maybe even eccentric -- qualities not admired by most traditional Pakistanis.

My parents would casually joke about my marriage while I was growing up. I was uneasy about it, but it seemed so far off that it was easy for me to laugh it off. "When pigs fly!" I'd say, and change the subject.

Now, almost everyone I know -- friends, teachers, co-workers -- expects me, as a child of the West, to reject the notion of arranged marriage, to proclaim my independence loudly. Sometimes, I still expect that, too. But as a young Muslim woman, I also expect myself to accept the obligations I have as my parents' daughter -- regardless of the emotional cost to me.

Pakistani culture and Islam beckon me with security, familiarity and ease. By agreeing to an arranged marriage, I could more easily satisfy my religious obligation to abstain from intimacy with the opposite sex until marriage -- not an easy feat, may I say. I would be participating in the ceremony of a culture 11,000 miles removed, a ceremony I've witnessed only twice. By doing so, I could spare my parents the stinging criticism they would face if their daughter chose her own path: barbs from three generations of extended family, all of whom accepted their own arranged marriages without argument -- and some of whom complain about them to this day.

At the same time, Pakistani culture repels me with its expectation that I adhere to a tradition that essentially advocates handing me over to a man for safekeeping. From the endless gossip of aunts, uncles, cousins and friends, I know the courtship ritual well. I will briefly meet my parents' choices and pick those who interest me. With each man, after perhaps a month of chaperoned dating, phone calls, no physical contact and little understanding of whether we would mesh, I am supposed to decide whether to marry him.

In the end, the decision will be mine. My parents would never force me to marry a particular man. But they do expect me not to dawdle. Ideally, I should make a decision after no more than five or six meetings. I am supposed to pick a husband, accept my fate and hope the marriage is successful. Our engagement would likely last a year or two, during which we would get to know each other better -- and maybe even grow fond of each other. (Breaking it off at that point would be possible, but that would reflect badly on me and on my family and would represent time wasted.) Still, I worry that my filial piety could lead me down an empty road -- where independent minds and hearts are given up to the demands of a culture that I often find perplexing.

I am not alone in this struggle. My oldest brother and I have mulled over the marriage question for hours and hours. My other brother, the middle child and black sheep of the family, long ago informed our parents that there would be no arranged marriage for him -- in fact, there probably wouldn't be a marriage at all. My parents hope he'll come to his senses. And though their oldest child is 29 -- marrying age for men in Pakistan -- my parents accept his excuse that he's just not ready. Maybe they focus less on him because my father was 31 when he married. Whatever the reason, until I get married, my parents' eyes are on me. Their priorities for me are that I get a bachelor's degree and marry -- in that order. Thus, I decided to take an honors thesis class last year to postpone my graduation until next March, when UCLA will have to forcibly boot me out. I am searching for ways to extend my school days so that I can put off the marriage decision again. I have to admit, I'm beginning to feel a creeping sense of desperation because I was imbued with a sense of skepticism toward anything that is overly reliant on tradition rather than reason. But my skepticism is outweighed by an obligation to my mother and father, and to their happiness.

My parents are not evil people who have kept me in a box my whole life, bent on handing me over to a man who will do the same. They've always treated me with love and respect and showed trust in my judgment. And the rules they applied to me when I was younger have remained a part of me, even when I have not wanted them to. For example, my parents never allowed me to date and generally frowned any on male friendships. Dating leads to intimacy, which would be out of the question. In high school, I was far quieter than I am now, and a tight curfew ensured my good behavior.

But the coed dorms, parties and freedom of college have presented a moral dilemma for me. I did not want to disappoint my parents. So I developed a complex method of discouraging in myself behavior that they, and Islam, would consider deviant. When I thought someone was about to ask me out, I used the idea that I wasn't sure about my sexuality as a ruse to get him to keep his distance. Or I ran off, claiming an appointment. But after four years of these tactics -- which have not failed me yet -- I find it harder to convince others, and myself, that I'm not interested.

Then I think of my parents and their leniency over the years and I stop having the conversation with myself in which I have doubts. Despite their strict upbringing, my parents do not ask me to wear the Islamic head cover. They did not insist that I attend a local college and continue to live at home, as many Muslim girls do. They do not admonish me when I stay out late, and they only occasionally flare up at my decision to forgo medicine for journalism. They remind me to eat and sleep and worry less about grades and career, and, they encourage me to attend concerts and enjoy my youth.

My parents have given me every opportunity for happiness. And I know that their happiness depends on fulfilling their responsibilities as good Muslim parents. They must see their children married to other Muslims of whom they approve.

That took on a new urgency last January when my father, who has a bad heart, also had a stroke. A religious man, he now even more adamantly believes it is his duty to secure my spiritual well-being in whatever time he has left. If he succeeds in marrying me well, ideally to a Muslim from a good Pakistani family, then my soul will be at peace in the afterlife. Moreover, he will be enabling me to follow the rules set out by Islam -- to respect my parents' wishes, to start a family and to hand down my religious morals to my children.

That holds nearly as much weight as performing his five daily prayers. For him, my marriage would be the crowning achievement in a life nearly complete. I worry that, if his health deteriorates further and I am not married, I will be the cause of his having an incomplete life.

Similarly, my mother doesn't believe she can perform the pilgrimage to Mecca -- of paramount importance to even moderately devout Muslims -- with a clear conscience until I am married. If I refused to get married, my parents would be brokenhearted and confused. Like any child close to her parents, I could not watch them suffer.

And so I find myself defending arranged marriage against those who see it as absurd or even barbaric. Yet I'm disturbed by the doubt these critics instill in me. My fifth year of college buys me more time to resolve my career insecurities. But if I can't even decide between writing or editing, philanthropy or graduate school, how can I commit myself to a man I'll know so little about? Beyond my parents' requirements, there are traits I need in the man I marry that cannot be discerned from a few meetings. Will he be able to hold his own in a discussion with me? Will he calmly accept that I will be at least a half-hour late to any important event? Will he make fun of Bollywood films with me?

If we marry, it will no doubt be for life. Muslims accept divorce, but usually as a last resort, and many Pakistanis, including my extended family, see divorce as an escape for the weak-willed.

And is it selfish and idealistic to want "true love"? My American instincts tell me that love comes before marriage, not a few years after -- if I am lucky. Like a lot of South Asians raised in the United States, I hope for a "love-match" -- where parents accept the Muslim their child has met on her own and has decided to marry. My parents have said that this route would please them most, because it would be a compromise between their ideals and mine.

A month ago, I asked my mother about her determination to have me married soon, especially when her own marriage at 21 took her to London, away from the world she knew, preventing her from pursuing a career and establishing her independence. She said, "Do you think I want to you to leave us -- to have a man at the center of your life? Maybe even to go away? I want my daughter close to me always, but this is my duty; I don't have a choice -- I can't be selfish. I have to let you go."

That day, I decided I would have an arranged marriage.

But now, I marvel at how quickly the summer has passed. I feel like hyperventilating when I think how quickly spring will come, and engagement and marriage will follow. I fantasize about ways to scare off suitors (bringing sock puppets to our first meeting, perhaps?). Briefly, I resolve to put off marriage, for a few years at least.

But then I think of my parents' anguish if I refuse to honor their wishes -- I think of my father and the shadowy road ahead of him -- and of how empty I will feel. And I wonder, if I have one foot in each world, is it possible to keep from being torn apart?

Author's e-mail: saleems@washpost.com

Sabaa Saleem, a student at UCLA, is a summer intern working as a copy editor on The Post's Foreign desk.

© 2003 The Washington Post Company

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Sunday, May 9, 2004 - Chung Lao     

TOURNEY DATE, LOCATION, FEE CHANGING.....

A.  I will have the complete details for you THIS TUESDAY.




 

Friday, May 7, 2004 - Binu

Top Ten

Weather: Spring is upon us and along with the warmer weather and longer days comes a lot of flowers getting it on. Pollen... Its what’s for dinner. For those of you with Allergies, you know how miserable this time of year can be. My advice… Stay inside. If  you must go outside – wear a mask. When people ask you, why you are wearing a mask, warn them about the looming perils of Global Warming.

Politics: The Dems are in uproar about the abuse of the Iraqi prisoners. The Arab nations are in disgust that we have committed such atrocities. While everyone has reason to be upset, I agree with Benj that much of this anger is disproportionate. As Newt Gingrich calls it – It is selective anger. On 9/11 when one of the worst attacks in history happened, causing the loss of thousands of civilian lives, the Palestinians were seen toting their guns and cheering in the streets. 

Travel: This is a true fact and I don’t mean to be offensive to any Polish IPF viewers. I am simply perpetuating an old Stereotype in a harmless manner.  Anyways, remember back in the days when Airlines allowed smoking on an airplane.  Most airlines had their non-smoking section towards the front of the airplane and the smoking section in the back. In the polish Airlines, The Smoking section was on the left side and the non-smoking was on the right, so at any point – you were sitting next to a smoker! Its true – I can’t make this stuff up.

Sports: Baseball is fun to play but I can’t watch nine innings in a row. I used to be able to, but now I’m so used to the fast paced action of Basketball and football that I don’t have the patience to watch grown men spit and scratch themselves while intermittently taking swings at a 90 mph ball. And now with the drug controversy and all , you have to wonder—who was it that hit all those homeruns- Barry Bonds or Steroids?

Entertainment:  10 years of Friends have come to an end…..Good Riddance!  I could name 10 shows that were better. Wheel of Fortune, NBC Nightly News with Dan Rather,  Donahue,  The Price is Right…Shall I go on?

Careers & Jobs: A recent report prepared by the Council of Economic Advisors stated that Outsourcing might actually create more jobs in the U.S.   It’s true-- this is what they claim!  My question is this. Where did these Economists get their degrees – The University of Bob? And on that note, why are we as taxpayers paying these guys 6 figures to sit around all day and speculate. They are not providing a good or service. They’re simply making guesses that may or may not come true. I might as well take my chances with Miss Cleo or that guy from “Crossing Over”

Technology: Last week I chucked my humongous CRT monitor and replaced it with a sleek, slim 17’ flat screen.  I have so much space on my desk now that I don’t know what to do with it all. Flat screens are expensive but if you have a friend that works for BestBuy your set. BestBuy for a guy is like Mandees or Express to a girl. Once I step in, its hard to get me out.

Automobiles: Last week as I was driving back from work, a black car passed me. It was completely pimped out -- 18’ rims, A Huge spoiler, Tints, Exhaust, racing stripes, Sound System, the works.  Too bad it was on a Saturn! Why do these nut-jobs put  20,000 dollars worth of accessories into a 5000 dollar car?  

Health:  Did you know the price of Milk has gone up to over 4 dollars! Oh well, It looks like we have to find other sources to get our calcium. I heard Soy beans are a good source of calcium. In fact some people have completely switched to soy milk. That may be all fine and dandy, but when I’m eating my oreos and cholocate chip cookies, nothing beats a tall cold glass of whole milk.

Business:  Interest rates may go up in the near future. If you have student loans, car loans or home loans, now’s the best time to consolidate and get locked in at a fixed rate. Also, you should think about switching to geico. A 15 minute call can save you 15 percent on your car insurance.

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Thursday, May 6, 2004 - Benj

Disproportionate Rage       

People across the Muslim world are infuriated by the abuses of Iraqi detainees at the hands of American soldiers.  And so they should be.  Those abuses were absolutely criminal and the perpetrators should be dealt with severely.

But where was the outrage when four American civilians were killed and dragged through the streets like animals?  Why is is that Americans get worked up when their soldiers misbehave terribly against the Iraqis, but the Muslim world barely raises its voice when Americans are tortured, beaten, killed, and abused?  Where was the outrage when Mullah al-Sadr refused to turn himself in, despite proof of guilt?  Why was there so little uproar about the Iraqis who danced in the street and sprayed bullet-fire in celebration of the heinous murder of those four Americans?

It's true that there was some concern expressed, some condolences offerred.  But nothing close to the level of outrage that has swept the world because of the alleged abuses that are coming to light.  

It starts and ends with Hatred.  Although most Muslims are far different from the fanatics that have hijacked the religion, there is an underlying current in the Muslim religion that infuses so many with a hatred for America & Israel and anything non-Islam.  Even some peace-loving Muslims have an unreasonably strong bias against Israel, and can barely utter any semblance of outrage at the terrorist tactics of the Palestinians.  

This evil pathology needs to be cut out like the grotesque, destructive cancer that it is.  And that's what this War on Terror is all about in the end:  bringing change to a hate-filled, morally deprived region of the world.  

In closing, a quote from war historian Victor Davis Hanson:  "... there is an asymmetry about the coverage of the incident, an imbalance and double standard that have been predictable throughout this entire brutal war.

The Arab world -- where the mass-murdering Osama bin Laden is often canonized -- is shocked by a pyramid of nude bodies and faux-electric prods, but has so far expressed less collective outrage in its media when the charred corpses of four Americans were poked and dismembered by cheering crowds in Fallujah. The taped murder of Daniel Pearl or a video of the hooded Italian who had his brains blown out -- this is the daily fare that emanates now from the television studios of the Middle East.

Indeed, if Al-Arabiya and Al-Jazeera could display the same umbrage over mass murder that they do over these recent accounts of shame and humiliation of the detained Iraqis, much of the gratuitous violence of the Middle East would surely diminish. The papers that now allege war crimes are the same state-controlled and censored media that print gleeful accounts of death and desecration of Westerners and promulgate an institutionalized anti-Semitism not seen since the Third Reich."




 

Wednesday, May 5, 2004 - Chung Lao     

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Tuesday, May 4, 2004 - Brenda     

May, End of School

I find it hard to believe that we are already in May. As in May, 5th month of the year. Wow, it seems that only yesterday it was December 31 and I was getting ready to go to the all night meeting held in my church to usher in the new year. Besides being an indicator of how time flies, the Month of May is a signal to those of us who live in the south of a very important event -last day of school! K-12th graders get out around the end of May and the college/university students end classes by the first week of May and finish finals on the second week.

So, yes, I've been studying for finals, and finishing up papers I should have written some time back. As much as I try to start early, for some reason I cannot write my papers until a few days, or the very day before its due. I love gathering the information, but the actual writing is something that I put off until the last moment possible. In order to get my papers done in time I've had to pull all nighters with the help of some energy drinks. By the way, I don't even know if those energy drinks actually work or its just the placebo effect, but I was, as the name of one of the ones I tried, wired. I think, though, that it may have all been in my mind and just gave me a good excuse to be hyper ;). But I don't know, they may actually have ingredients in them to energize or whatever those drinks claim to do.

To those of you in the middle of finals and graduation and everything else, I wish you well. As for me, I better go finish writing a paper that is due tomorrow ;) Take care. Until next time.




 

Monday, May 3, 2004 - Chung Lao     

New Pictures:  2004 Dallas Revivals

A.  Sup all.  I have 27 pictures from the 2004 Dallas Revivals for you.  Special shout out to Susan Samuel for submitting these pics and working on the captions with me.

B Spurs Win Game 1, 88, 78:  "There's not a whole lot of secrets about what they do and what we do," Duncan said.  "it's about going out there and imposing your will."  Yeah Tim.  That's what I'm talkin' about.  Is there a more solid, all around player in basketball than Tim Duncan?  

The Lakers Dynasty is over.  It's time to send them home........again.




 

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