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Tuesday, December 30, 2003 - Brenda     

Happy New Year!

I hope all of you had a safe and merry Christmas. Christmas Eve and Day came and went as any other day for me because I worked. The only thing that marked the difference  on the 24th was the fact that the amount of customers tripled where I work, but everything else was the same. The postal worker walked in wearing his same short sleeved shirt and shorts, and the mothers kept on telling their children that if they kept on touching the items in the store, that young lady (meaning me) was going to hit them.

On Christmas Day, I went to  church with my family in the morning and then again went to work. We didn't have anything formal at home because my family is not very traditional. Please don't get me wrong, nothing wrong with celebrating Christmas, just that because we are the only ones of our family living in Houston among other things we have never gotten into the habit of having a big meal and the "traditional" celebration. Nonetheless, Christmas does serve as a marker that the year is about to end, and is a good time to start looking back over the past year to learn from our errors and see in what we can improve in the coming year.

 New Year's resolutions come to mind! But I'm talking about real commitments that we plan on keeping, not the usual New Year's resolutions that are forgotten after two weeks. But anyway, my commitments for this year, as for most of all the commitments I make are along the line of learning new things and having new and different experiences. When I was in middle school I learned about Benjamin Franklin, and how he was able to accomplish so many things in his life. I was so inspired by that that it has been one of my goals in life to be able to do as many things and learn as many things as I can, and I hope I can challenge some of you out there to do the same. One of the saddest things is getting to the end of your life and looking back and wondering what you got done in all those years you had.

There is this book I highly recommend titled Time Management from the Inside Out written by Julie Morgenstern which shows how to not only manage your time but also set goals for yourself. A life without goals has no worth. The only guarantee is that if you aim at nothing you'll get there fast. But it won't be satisfying. And don't forget to make goals for eternity -they are the only ones that will last forever.

On a lighter note, though, one of my resolutions is to learn how to cook. Yes, I am ashamed to admit that I am 20 and can't cook. But, I am hoping to quickly rectify that problem. As a matter of fact, yesterday I was determined to cook a meal for my family, but my grandmother and father strongly discouraged me from doing so. I wonder why.

Okay, well y'all have a great New Year!! Take care and may God bless each and everyone of you. See you in '04.




 

Tuesday, December 16, 2003 - Brenda     

Year Winds Down, Christmas

This year has come and gone so quickly, or so it seems to me. It seems like it was only yesterday that I was sitting down in the all night meeting we have in my church the night/morning that will usher in the new year. Now it is a year later, and so much has changed in my life as well as in many other 's. In my Bible I have had to record the death of one of my beloved friends, and also will be recording the marriage of my dear sister.

On an international level, Saddam Hussein's regime was overthrown in Iraq earlier this year, and just a few days ago he was captured alive, but appearing to be only a shadow of the man he once was. Nationally, Arnold Schwarzenegger became the governor of California, and  in sports, the Cincinnati Bengals have become the feel good story of the NFL.

Christmas is nearly here! For those of you up north, it seems you will have that cherished white Christmas we Houstonians see only in our dreams or in movies. Snow or no snow, one of the things I like about Christmas is that joy and happiness and longsuffering are promoted, but I think we should be living that throughout the year. We need to show our family and friends that we love them and care about them every chance we get, because we don't know if they will be with us the next moment. Ultimately, the people in our life and our relationship we have with God will be what counts at the end of our lives. Don't live to regret the choices you have made.

Well, take care. Until next time.




 

Friday, December 5, 2003 - Brenda     

Finals, Wedding Planning, A Sample of Cyber talk

End of semester-  Finals are coming up, and I'm sitting on the grass with a few of my friends, listening to the relaxing sound of the water fountain next to me and the birds chirping above me.  I'm really supposed to be studying for a final I have tomorrow, but instead I am contemplating what is coming up in a few weeks. Even though finals have not even started, I am already planning on what I'm going to do to de-stress after finals, and the list includes a trip to Bath and Body Works (can any of you ladies say amen? I love that cucumber/melon lotion), and I will definitely swing by Barnes and Nobles to enjoy some quiet time curled up with a good book.

Besides all that filling my mind, I'm thinking of a not-so-relaxing event coming up in about 2 weeks- my sister's wedding. At this moment my sister is calm and serene, while I am going crazy. The fact is that  as happy as I am for this wonderful occasion, it takes some time to adjust to the reality that my sister will be moving out and be starting her own life. That reality apparently hit not only me, but also the rest of the ladies in my family, because on Thanksgiving day as we were sitting around giving God thanks for how he had brought about that union, my mother, sisters, grandmothers, and I started getting teary eyed. I felt kind of sorry for my poor dad with 6 bawling women on his hands.

I shall not wax poetic on all the bittersweet emotions coursing through me, but I do have a question to ask: are there any ladies or even gentlemen out there who have been part of a wedding party before? Care to share any tidbits on how to overcome the fear of walking up the aisle? Make no mistake, I know the bride and groom will be the focal point, but the thought of walking up the aisle is kind of scary.

Grammar, grammar, grammar, how could I have delayed speaking about this? I'm sure y'all are absolutely mortified, but do calm down- I am here to relieve your suffering. The language topic for the day is Cyber talk, and as I mentioned last time, the talk will revolve around Joyce from H-town, but she likes to let  people know that she is originally from Canada. As to her writing, its not that I blame her of course, being raised in a place that calls their money loonies and toonies, I mean, who wouldn't start talking and writing weird after that? (I'm just kidding!)

Anyway, the truth is that she has the ability to write really well for school, but when she gets on IM and e-mail, whew... let me back up. For those of you who are not clear as to what cyber talk is, cyber talk is the abbreviated version used for a lot of words when chatting online or when writing an e-mail. It is actually very useful and for the most part understandable. But when it takes you a few minutes to decipher what someone is trying to say, well, you know what I mean. So here is a sample of an e-mail she sent me, used with her permission. (AJ, if you're out there dear, you might want to skip the next few sentences).

(already on tha first day....we finished 2 sections n got hmwk)...n he dont really explain tha material well...so i'm tryna get into anotha class...wid a betta teacher...plz pray dat i will be able to n i also need to REALLY well in all ma classes...so plz pray fo dat too...thanx a lot guys...k...aite guys gotta go...ma rents b callin....latez

What did y'all think? Were you able to understand that the first time you read it through without having to back track on any of the words?

Well, I'll take my leave now. To all of you who are taking exams, I wish you the best and I pray you will do well in your exams. By the way, aren't those snowflakes the cutest? All I have to say is that Chung always comes up with these great ideas. Anyway, Until Next Time.




 

Tuesday, November 18, 2003 - Brenda     

A Cold Day, Busy Week, Revival Meetings

A cold day-  Today is one of those days I just want to curl up in my bed, under a warm blanket, with a mug of hot chocolate, close the curtains, and go to sleep. Well, I'd close the curtains if I had some in my room -I guess I'll settle for closing the blinds. It's a cold, rainy day, full of tornadoes, and I am cold, wet, and hungry. Poor, poor me. And to add to that, I have to work tonight. Alas, these calamities in life will come, we must bear them as best we can ;)

Busy Week-   These past two weeks have been crazily busy and filled with non-normal happenings ( if that wasn't a word before, it is now). We had special meetings in the church I attend this past weekend, had people in my house from out of town, I had been running around practicing for a skit and a special song the youth performed for those meetings, had an overdose of dayquill a few days prior to that, and was threatened to be kidnapped. And y'all thought all we did in Texas was milk cows and sit around and watch the grass grow ;) About that overdose (before someone blasts me on the message board) I took the recommended dose, but that was too strong for me, and I was going crazy. After that I decided that I would NEVER try drugs (not that I have ever wanted to), even if I am Colombian.

Revival Meetings-  Anyway, about the revival meetings, they were really great. I feel spiritually refreshed. It is a great feeling when things start getting into perspective once again. I tend to get caught up with my busy lifestyle and lose sight of what is truly important. One verse that has been in my mind, and goes along with some of the messages is found in Philipians 3:10 "That I may know Him and the power of His resurrection, and the fellowship of His sufferings, being made conformable unto His death". That is a pretty powerful verse.  As I said, the meetings were great, and I have a few pictures so that y'all can see. So I'm not the best photographer, I admit, but I still hope you enjoy.

                                

It's time for me to leave, and I'm sure you are very disappointed at the lack of reference to grammar, but have no fear; next time I will be posting a sample of the worst writing I have ever seen, featuring Joyce, otherwise known as the ghetto Canadian-Texan gal. With her permission, of course. If any one knows someone who writes very bad, or if you think you do, I'd like to see a sample of your writing. Post it up or e-mail me. But I think I have the worst one to tell you the truth. Not that she can't  write well, but, well, I'll tell you about it next time. So, Until next time.




 

Tuesday, November 4, 2003 - Brenda     

A Typical Day, A little bit of English

A typical day-  If you click on the picture below,  you’ll be able to see other pictures that represent a typical day for me at school. Oh, and I also threw in a picture of the car I usually drive so that y’all could know we actually have cars here in Houston and don’t ride horses everywhere. As a matter of fact, Texas is second only to Canada in the quality of the highways in the world.

While I’m at it, I may as well mention a few other interesting things about Texas. Texas is the biggest contiguous state in the United States, we have the best looking cowboys and cowgirls here, and if you Yankees ever get tired of shoveling your way out of your house during the winter, Texas is the place for you. For those of you interested in the medical profession, Houston is known as the medical center of the world. As if that were not impressive enough, Houston takes the 2nd prize trophy for pollution in the country. Sooo, Houston, anyone? …No? …Okay, moving on…

A little bit of English- Did y’all see the message board a few days ago when they were talking about language? Wasn’t that the coolest thing? Well I thought it was anyway. And talking about language, I can’t resist throwing this in; did you know most people use the word “healthy” in an incorrect manner? Most of us say that we are eating healthy food, when “healthy” refers to things that are alive. And unless you are "Hannibal," your food should not be healthy. The correct term is actually healthful. You can say, I am eating healthful food to have a healthy body, and that is perfectly acceptable. So now that you know that, your life should be complete.

Well, my time has run out, so take care and have a great week. Stay right here, we’ll be talking about verbs next time, and I’m sure you don’t want to miss that ;) Until next time.




 

October 21, 2003 - Brenda     

New Perspective out of Texas

For those of you who don’t know me, I am Brenda and I live in Houston, Texas. It is a privilege for me to be brought on board IPF, and I am definitely looking forward to working with Chris and all the other webmasters. Chris, Vinod, thanks for the welcome. As Chung mentioned, Susan and I will be updating alternately on Tuesday and will be bringing you a lady’s view from the north and south of the country. Should be fun.

In case you want to know a little bit about me, I am going to school right now and am hoping to graduate next year sometime. My interests are politics, and music, and my hobbies include reading and gardening.  I also have to admit, I’m a self-proclaimed nerd. My favorite subjects are English and Math, so if you have any questions, especially regarding grammar, post it up or e-mail me. One at a time please, I know what a hot topic grammar can be ;). Last but most definitely not least, God is very important to me. I am very involved in my church, teach 8th grade Sunday school, and love it.

Interesting week, I have got to tell you. Between being swamped with exams, papers, and getting trapped in an elevator, I had no time to be bored. So umm, Brenda, you call being stuck in an elevator fun? Well yeah actually, I do. How many of you out there have been stuck in an elevator before? I mean, it’s a new and different experience—you   should try it sometime (did I mention I’m extremely sleep deprived from studying for my midterms?). While I enjoyed my 30 minute stay in there, I would have gotten an F in the class to which I was headed had I stayed there a while longer.

For one, I had actually been trying to get to my class as quickly as possible because I had a midterm, and two, I had a paper due that makes up 20% of my grade. Thankfully, we were rescued on time for me to rush to class and take my exam. I know you are dying to find out why the elevator got stuck, so I’ll tell you. Here it goes. The elevator doors are closing--guy runs, pries the doors open. Doors close--bam, we’re stuck.  Among the ones stuck were 3 girls and the guy. 2 of us were calm, but the third girl was voicing her wishes to knock the guy out.  I of course gently discouraged her from that. Moral of story: Never pry elevator doors open. You may get stuck with an irate female and no Brenda to be the peacemaker.

Final thought: Remember, no matter what, we’re always in His hands.

Take care and have a great week. Until next time.




 

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