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Tuesday, December 30,
2003
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Brenda
Happy New Year!
I
hope all of you had a safe and merry Christmas.
Christmas Eve and Day came and went as any other day for me because I worked.
The only thing that marked the difference on the 24th was the fact that
the amount of customers tripled where I work, but everything else was the same.
The postal worker walked in wearing his same
short sleeved shirt and shorts, and the mothers
kept on telling their children that if they kept on touching the items in the
store, that young lady (meaning me) was going to hit them.
On
Christmas Day,
I went to
church with my family in the morning and then again went to work. We didn't have
anything formal at home because my family is not very traditional. Please don't
get me wrong, nothing wrong with celebrating Christmas, just that because we are
the only ones of our family living in
Houston
among other things we have never gotten into the habit of having a big meal and
the "traditional" celebration. Nonetheless, Christmas does serve as a marker
that the year is about to end, and is a good time to start
looking back over the
past year
to learn from our errors and see in what we can improve in the coming year.
New Year's resolutions come to mind!
But I'm talking about real commitments that we plan on keeping, not the usual
New Year's resolutions that are forgotten after two weeks. But anyway, my
commitments for this year, as for most of all the commitments I make are along
the line of learning new things and having new and different experiences. When I
was in middle school I learned about
Benjamin Franklin,
and how he was able to accomplish so many things in his life. I was so inspired
by that that it has been one of my goals in life to be able to do as many things
and learn as many things as I can, and I hope I can
challenge
some of you out there to do the same. One of the saddest things is getting to
the end of your life and looking back and wondering what you got done in all
those years you had.
There is this book I highly recommend titled
Time Management from the Inside Out
written by Julie Morgenstern which shows how to not only manage your time
but also set goals for yourself. A life without goals has no worth. The only
guarantee is that if you aim at nothing you'll get there fast. But it won't be
satisfying. And don't forget to make goals for eternity -they are the only ones
that will last forever.
On
a lighter note, though, one of my resolutions is to learn how to cook. Yes, I am
ashamed to admit that I am 20 and
can't cook.
But, I am hoping to quickly rectify that problem. As a matter of fact, yesterday
I was determined to cook a meal for my family, but my grandmother and father
strongly discouraged me from doing so. I wonder why.
Okay, well y'all have a great New Year!! Take care and may God bless each and
everyone of you.
See you in '04.
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Tuesday, December 16,
2003
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Brenda
Year Winds Down,
Christmas
This year has come and gone so quickly, or so it seems to me. It seems like it
was only yesterday that I was sitting down in the all night meeting we have in
my church the night/morning that will
usher in the new year.
Now it is a year later, and so much has changed in my life as well as in many
other 's. In my Bible I have had to record the death of one of my beloved
friends, and also will be recording the marriage of my dear sister.
On
an international level, Saddam Hussein's regime was overthrown in Iraq earlier
this year, and just a few days ago he was captured alive, but appearing to be
only a shadow of the man he once was. Nationally, Arnold Schwarzenegger became
the governor of California, and in
sports, the Cincinnati
Bengals
have become the feel good story of the NFL.
Christmas is nearly here!
For those of you up north, it seems you will have that cherished white Christmas
we Houstonians see only in our dreams or in movies. Snow or no snow, one of the
things I like about Christmas is that joy and happiness and longsuffering are
promoted, but I think we should be living that throughout the year. We need to
show our family and friends that we love them and care about them every chance
we get, because we don't know if they will be with us the next moment.
Ultimately, the people in our life and our relationship we have with God will be
what counts at the end of our lives. Don't live to
regret
the choices you have made.
Well, take care.
Until next time.
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Friday, December 5,
2003
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Brenda
Finals, Wedding
Planning, A Sample of Cyber talk
End of semester- Finals are
coming up, and I'm sitting on the grass with a few of my friends, listening to
the relaxing sound of the water fountain next to me and the birds chirping above
me. I'm really supposed to be studying for a final I have tomorrow, but
instead I am contemplating what is coming up in a few weeks. Even though finals
have not even started, I am already planning on what I'm going to do to
de-stress after finals, and the list includes a trip to Bath and Body Works (can
any of you ladies say amen? I love that cucumber/melon lotion), and I will
definitely swing by Barnes and Nobles to enjoy some quiet time curled up with a
good book.
Besides all that
filling my mind, I'm thinking of a not-so-relaxing event coming up in about 2
weeks- my sister's
wedding. At
this moment my sister is calm and serene, while I am going crazy. The fact is
that as happy as I am for this wonderful occasion, it takes some time to
adjust to the reality that my sister will be moving out and be starting her own
life. That reality apparently hit not only me, but also the rest of the ladies
in my family, because on Thanksgiving day as we were sitting around giving God
thanks for how he had brought about that union, my mother, sisters,
grandmothers, and I started getting teary eyed. I felt kind of sorry for my poor
dad with
6
bawling women on his hands.
I shall not wax poetic
on all the bittersweet emotions coursing through me, but I do have a question to
ask: are there any ladies or even gentlemen out there who have been part of a
wedding party before? Care to share any tidbits on how to overcome the fear of
walking up the aisle?
Make no mistake,
I know the bride and groom will be the focal point, but the thought of walking
up the aisle is kind of scary.
Grammar, grammar,
grammar,
how could I have delayed speaking about this? I'm sure y'all are absolutely
mortified, but do calm down- I am here to relieve your suffering. The language
topic for the day is Cyber talk, and as I mentioned last time, the talk will
revolve around Joyce from H-town, but she likes to let people know that
she is originally from Canada. As to her writing, its not that I blame her of
course, being raised in a place that calls their money
loonies and toonies,
I mean, who wouldn't start talking and writing weird after that? (I'm just
kidding!)

Anyway, the truth is
that she has the ability to write really well for school, but when she gets on
IM and e-mail, whew... let me back up. For those of you who are not clear as to
what cyber talk is, cyber talk is the abbreviated version used for a lot of
words when chatting online or when writing an e-mail. It is actually very useful
and for the most part understandable. But when it takes you
a few minutes to
decipher what someone is trying to say,
well, you know what I mean. So here is a sample of an e-mail she sent me, used
with her permission. (AJ, if you're out there dear, you might want to skip the
next few sentences).
(already on tha first day....we finished 2 sections n got hmwk)...n he dont
really explain tha material well...so i'm tryna get into anotha class...wid a
betta teacher...plz pray dat i will be able to n i also need to REALLY well in
all ma classes...so plz pray fo dat too...thanx a lot guys...k...aite guys gotta
go...ma rents b callin....latez
What did y'all think?
Were you able to understand that the first time you read it through without
having to back track on any of the words?
Well, I'll take my
leave now. To all of you who are taking exams, I wish you the best and I pray
you will do well in your exams. By the way, aren't those snowflakes the cutest?
All I have to say is that Chung always comes up with these great ideas. Anyway,
Until Next
Time.
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Tuesday, November 18,
2003
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Brenda
A Cold Day, Busy
Week, Revival Meetings
A cold day- Today is
one of those days I just want to curl up in my bed, under a warm blanket, with a
mug of hot chocolate, close the curtains, and go to sleep. Well, I'd close the
curtains if I had some in my room -I guess
I'll settle for closing the blinds. It's a cold, rainy day,
full of tornadoes, and I am cold, wet, and hungry. Poor, poor me. And to add to
that, I have to work tonight. Alas, these calamities in life will come, we must
bear them as best we can ;)
Busy Week-
These past two
weeks have been crazily busy and filled with non-normal happenings ( if that
wasn't a word before, it is now). We had special meetings in the church I attend
this past weekend, had people in my house from out of town, I had been running
around practicing for a skit and a special song the youth performed for those
meetings, had an overdose of dayquill a few days prior to that, and was
threatened to be kidnapped. And y'all thought all we did in Texas was
milk cows and sit
around and watch the grass grow ;)
About that overdose (before someone blasts me on the message board) I took the
recommended dose, but that was too strong for me, and I was going crazy. After
that I decided that I would NEVER try drugs (not that I have ever wanted to),
even if I am Colombian.
Revival Meetings-
Anyway,
about the revival meetings, they were really great. I feel spiritually
refreshed. It is a great feeling when things start getting into perspective once
again. I tend to get caught up with my busy lifestyle and lose sight of what is
truly important. One verse that has been in my mind, and goes along with some of
the messages is found in Philipians 3:10 "That I may know Him and the power of
His resurrection, and the fellowship
of His sufferings,
being made conformable unto His death". That is a pretty powerful verse.
As I said, the meetings were great, and I have a few pictures so that y'all can
see. So I'm not the best photographer, I admit, but I still hope you enjoy.

It's time for me to
leave, and I'm sure you are very disappointed at the lack of reference to
grammar, but
have no fear; next time I will be posting a sample of the worst writing I have
ever seen, featuring Joyce, otherwise known as the ghetto Canadian-Texan
gal. With her permission, of course. If any one knows someone who writes very
bad, or if you think you do, I'd like to see a sample of your writing. Post it
up or e-mail me. But I think I have the worst one to tell you the truth. Not
that she can't write well, but, well, I'll tell you about it next time.
So, Until
next time.
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Tuesday, November 4,
2003
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Brenda
A Typical Day, A
little bit of English
A typical day- If you click on
the picture below, you’ll be able to see other pictures that represent a
typical day for me at school. Oh, and I also threw in a picture of the car I
usually drive so that y’all could know we actually have cars here in Houston and
don’t ride horses everywhere. As a matter of fact, Texas is second only to
Canada in the quality of the highways in the world.

While I’m at it, I may as well mention a few other
interesting things about Texas. Texas is the biggest contiguous state in the
United States, we have the best looking cowboys and cowgirls here, and if you
Yankees ever get tired of
shoveling your way out of your house during the winter, Texas is the place for
you. For those of you interested in the medical profession, Houston is known as
the medical center of the world. As if that were not impressive enough, Houston
takes the 2nd prize trophy for pollution in the country. Sooo,
Houston, anyone? …No? …Okay, moving on…
A little bit of English- Did y’all see the
message board a few days ago when they were talking about language? Wasn’t that
the coolest thing? Well I thought it was anyway. And talking about language, I
can’t resist throwing this in; did you know most people use the word “healthy”
in an incorrect manner? Most of us say that we are eating healthy food, when
“healthy” refers to things that are alive. And unless you are
"Hannibal,"
your food should not be
healthy. The correct term is actually healthful. You can say, I am eating
healthful food to have a healthy body, and that is perfectly acceptable. So now
that you know that, your life should be complete.
Well, my time has run out, so take care and have a great
week. Stay right here, we’ll be talking about verbs next time, and I’m sure you
don’t want to miss that ;)
Until next time.
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October 21,
2003
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Brenda
New Perspective
out of Texas
For those of
you who don’t know me, I am Brenda and I live in Houston, Texas. It is a
privilege for me to be brought on board IPF, and I am definitely looking forward
to working with Chris and all the other webmasters. Chris, Vinod, thanks for the
welcome. As Chung mentioned, Susan and I will be updating alternately on Tuesday
and will be bringing you a
lady’s view
from the north and south of the
country. Should be fun.
In case you
want to know a little bit about me, I am going to school right now and am hoping
to graduate next year sometime. My interests are politics, and music, and my
hobbies include reading and gardening. I
also have to admit, I’m a self-proclaimed nerd. My favorite subjects are
English and Math, so if you have any questions, especially regarding grammar,
post it up or e-mail me. One at a time please, I know what a hot topic grammar
can be ;). Last but most definitely not least, God is very important to me. I am
very involved in my church, teach 8th grade Sunday school, and love
it.
Interesting
week, I have got to tell you. Between being swamped with exams, papers, and
getting trapped in an elevator, I had no time to be bored. So umm, Brenda, you
call being stuck in an elevator fun? Well yeah actually, I do. How many of you
out there have been stuck in an elevator before? I mean, it’s a new and
different experience—you
should try it sometime (did I mention I’m extremely
sleep deprived from studying
for my midterms?). While I enjoyed my 30 minute stay in there, I would have
gotten an F in the class to which I was headed had I stayed there a while
longer.
For
one, I had actually been trying to get to my class as quickly as possible
because I had a midterm, and two, I had a paper due that makes up
20% of my
grade. Thankfully, we were rescued on time for me to rush to class and take my
exam. I know you are dying to find out why the elevator got stuck, so I’ll
tell you. Here it goes. The elevator doors are closing--guy runs, pries the
doors open. Doors close--bam, we’re stuck.
Among the ones stuck were 3 girls and the guy. 2 of us were calm, but the
third girl was voicing her wishes to knock the guy out.
I of course gently discouraged her from that.
Moral of story:
Never pry elevator doors open. You may get stuck with an irate female and no
Brenda to be the peacemaker.
Final thought:
Remember, no matter what, we’re always in
His
hands.
Take care and
have a great week.
Until next time.
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